THE PLEASURE PRINCIPLE

 What if you could actually let yourself off the hook, slow down and experience pleasure and fun with more ease and trust? 

Don’t think for a second that I haven’t been right where you are! In fact at 27 I was dealing with adrenal fatigue and drinking 5 cups of coffee a day to stay awake. I was a celebrity makeup artist and I was constantly chasing the next client or high profile opportunity telling myself I would find my joy in money or status. And yet that never came. To fill that empty void I would spend time alone in my tiny one bedroom apartment with a pint of Ben and Jerry’s searching for some morsel of pleasure. It wasn’t until I spent 2 years consistently with a group of womxn that my life began to change. During that time my very protective walls began to come down, I shared my most vulnerable parts of myself and instead of being judged, what I said was actually valued. I was celebrated for my choices and my process was trusted instead of given advice and over-coached.

Everything I had wanted began to unfold, and for the first time, I discovered that I was deserving of them happening. I found myself developing healthier relationships with womxn and men. Traveling to places on my own that I promised I would only do with a romantic partner. Moving twice into my dream apartment with views of NYC (that were on my vision board for 2 years) and now my home in nature….JUST by following my pleasure. I became a mom which I was terrified of doing because I thought I would lose myself in having to be perfect, but I didn’t. So many changes happened and continue to happen because of what womxn reflect back to me that I  can not see in myself. Very few of us can. It’s the rare beauty we receive when we come together.

  You might be wondering how this can benefit me?

What can I really get from spending an extended amount of time with womxn. Here’s what happens to every client of mine that has come through this portal. 

 Here’s a recent testimonial from a client who came through The Pleasure Principle Program:

The Pleasure Principle introduced me to an entirely new way of living that was centered around my hearts desires, giving from a place of abundance and loving without expectation or reservation. Since joining the circle I have recreated my life by changing the stories I have around self-love, partnership, abundance & sensuality. I went from heartbroken, broke and living on friends couches to business owner, home owner and happily married to my soul mate in less than two years. That is the magic of this circle.” -Vanessa NYC

I’m happy that you’re here, and asking yourself the important questions like: 

 ✓ when I look at my life, what is it I really desire (or have I forgot that I even have desires:)? 

✓ How do I want to feel each morning when I wake up?

✓ What ways can pleasure and support assist my most coveted dreams and desires?

That is why I created The Pleasure Principle because left to our own devices we can scroll for hours on Instagram, or start our passion projects but then not have the support or belief that we can actually put it out to the world.